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Chiara: Or if they don’t want to talk to you then there’s just silence. I’ve noticed that if I show a little too much enthusiasm or come across as too independent, that will trigger silence.
Like if I initiate wanting to meet that puts some guys off here.
Christa: I feel like I have the same conversation over and over again because my language skills aren’t good enough.
Anthony: Is there really a casual dating culture here?
Christa: I actually approached someone on the train recently and he was totally ok with it but yeah it was kind of up to me to make a move.
But you don’t know if they’re interested in you as a person or because of your foreignness.With Japanese guys you don’t know how much of their behavior is cultural or is actually their personality.And at the same time it’s hard to know, like we were saying earlier, if the guy is interested in you mostly because you’re foreign and the kind of status that that brings with it.Back home I’m at prime dating age but I wonder about the guys I date here and why they’re not married yet.Rebecca: Yeah, it seems like back home dating is really much more frequent.